lets ask

whether most of the times. . .

Are tough times tough for me?
or
Am i tough for tough times?

Do situations take control of me?
or
Do i take control of situations?

Am i happy?
or
Am i sad?

Do i think before i talk?
or
Do i talk before i think?

Do i manage my anger?
or
Does anger manage me?

Do i need people to help me in distress?
or
Do i help people in distress?

Do i enjoy my work?
or
Am i just waiting to get out of the monotony?

Do i feel fortunate about what i've got?
or
Do i feel unfortunate about what i havent got?

Do i live in past?
Do i live in future?
or
Do i live in present with a vision for the future?

We owe an answer...
to ourselves.